Why Wait? Create Your Soul Mate Now! Live Workshop

Discover how to attract your ideal partner by choice and not chance … so the love of your life can find you!

In this inspiring workshop you’ll learn:

• The very first step you MUST take to successfully find a soul mate. Without it you’ll be wandering aimlessly.
• How to create a list of what you “do want” verses what you “don’t want” in a soul mate. This is NOT your typical list. You’ll reference this every time someone with potential crosses your path.
• The secret formula for clearing your environment of items from past relationships that can instantly transform your life within 24 hours.
• To align your bedroom and home environment so that it supports a healthy relationship from the start!

Benefits of the workshop include:

• How to stop the cycle of bad dating habits for good.
• How to move on from past relationships, heal and make peace with the past.
• Discover the secret to why you’re a catch.
• How to become a confident and better partner in a relationship.  
• What items from past relationships may be unconsciously blocking your soul mate from coming to YOU.

February Workshop:

Date:            Saturday,  August 28th, 2010

Time:            11-4:30

Place:           Cousins Incredible Vitality-3038 W. Irving Park Road

Early Registration Fee by June 20^th: $99.95

Registration Fee June 21^st or later: $125.00

Space is Limited to 20 participants. Sign up now to guarantee your spot.

Watch a video description : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wt90VMUXiqo

Facilitator: Frank Polancic, “The Soul Mate Guy” –see bio [www.createyoursoulmatenow.com]

Contact Information: (312) 286-4706 or frankpolancic@sbcglobal.net

Details: “Why Wait? Create Your Soul Mate Now!” book is included.

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A note about Frank.

Often described as “the soul mate guy,” Frank shows single people how to dramatically improve their chances of finding a soul mate – using some surprisingly simple concepts. His unique, practical and transformational approach to improving one’s love life is detailed in his acclaimed book.

Today, he is traveling the country sharing his message­­: to have a successful and happy soul mate relationship, singles must improve themselves first to attract an ideal mate, rather than look for someone else to “complete” them. Frank teaches how to disengage from “looking” long enough to attract real, lasting love.

Frank’s enthusiasm and passion for his work is magnetizing. His exercises, examples, anecdotes and success stories lead people to experience breakthroughs in their lives.

Why Wait? Create Your Soul Mate Now! has been featured on Fox News Chicago, CLTV and WGN, and pictured in the New York Daily News. Frank’s amazing story has been told in The Ottawa Daily Times.

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Hi Frank,

“I am just on a cloud. The workshop cleared the way for him to show up! It took less than a month. I can’t believe that he just fell out of the sky and in front of me. Every time we’re together we want more of it, talking laughing and sharing. He is exactly what I created him to be; Intelligent, funny and charming.

This is the real deal. It has been a long time for me, and I really get the power of what we did, even though sometimes I didn’t believe it when we were doing it. It really happened. He’s the one.

Fondly yours,

Barbara

About the Author…

Frank Polancic (often referred to as The Soul Mate Guy) is a dating coach, noted speaker and author of “ The Ladies Only Online Dating Teleclass – How to Choose an Online Dating Site That Gets You Your Man!” and “Why Wait? Create Your Soul Mate Now!”, an exceptional dating companion that combines the law of attraction, psychology, feng shui and other spiritual concepts to collectively break down barriers and help singles identify and attract their ideal partner.

His method is a powerful transformational tool to help men and women fall in love and live happily ever after…if you‘re not getting the results you want from online dating then call him at 312-286-4706 to arrange a private or group coaching call. www.createyoursoulmatenow.com

“Why Wait? Create Your Soul Mate Now!” book – $20

“Create Your Soul Mate Now!” Energy Affirmations Compact Disc $20

The 30 Day Audio Course – 5 Sessions / 3 CD’s $70

Audio Program Workbook – The Soul Mate Action Steps $10

Jump Start Your Love Life Fast! - Feng Shui for Romance and Attracting a Soul Mate CD $20

The Soul Mate Resume – A Quick Start Guide to Finding a Soul Mate Using Law of Attraction $20

Online Dating Tele-class – How to Choose a Website that gets you Your Soul Mate  CD $20

The Soul Mate Guy’s Soul Mate Tips & Coaching Newsletter  Included

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This RECORDING  is designed to give you the tools to win the game of internet dating and find a good match that’s right for you.

Are you having trouble finding success with online dating? Scared to jump into the online dating scene? It can be overwhelming. There are hundreds of internet dating sites, forms to fill out, pictures to upload…

Want to know which internet dating site is right for you? By targeting the site that is right for you, you’ll be able to become wildly successful at meeting new people, attracting a serious relationship or even finding your soul mate. This knowledge can save you a lot of money, heartache, and time.

You will learn how to:

* Develop a dynamic profile that will yield quick quality responses from people you might not normally attract.

* Position yourself as someone who is honest and authentic.

* Have your profile “NOT” sound like all the others.

* How to gain confidence and feel safe and secure during the entire online dating process from start to finish.

* Create a compelling off-camera look with your photo.

* Avoid rookie mistakes which most newcomers make.

* Screen people effectively and say “no” instead of being “nice”.

* Set up a powerful telephone interview before you actually meet them in person.

* Prepare for an exciting and engaging first date.

* Choose an online dating site that’s right for you.

* Decide if online dating is really for you.

Listening to this class could be the most important decision of your life!  You’ll get a ton of value.

Need some assistance in your soul mate search? Lacking motivation and a sense of direction? No worries I’ll provide that for you.

Come take the journey where the “Why Wait? Create Your Soul Mate Now!” process began.

In 5 hours of instruction and coaching you’ll undoubtedly be on the most honest, comprehensive, well thought out direct path to finding your soul mate in the 21st century.

Instantly you’ll get a realistic idea of when this person will enter your life. Immediately you’ll begin to get a sense of what they’ll look like. Automatically you’ll learn how to prepare for this loving person even before you meet them.

And you can do this within the comfort of your home by telephone.

Reward yourself in advance for having the courage to ask for your soul mate.

Universe……send me my soul mate please.  I’m ready to start the process now.

I’m ready to find my soul mate. Click here to sign up today!

The 5 week course includes:

*     “Why Wait? Create Your Soul Mate Now!” Book

*     Create Your Soul Mate Now! Energy Affirmations Compact Disc

*     75 minutes per week of direct training with Frank (Courses begin frequently)

*     Direct email contact with Frank

*     Group Accountability

*     Tele-course downloadable recording & Workbook

*     3 Bonus downloads – “Jump Start Your Love Life Fast”, “Ladies Only Online Dating Teleclass”, “The Soul Mate Resume”

Here are the Top 7 Benefits people say they’ve received from doing the “Why Wait? Create Your Soul Mate Now!” Tele-course.

*      Belief their soul mate does exist

*      Clarity on what qualities they want to attract in a mate

*      Confidence in their relationship creativity

*      Inspiration to move forward from past relationships

*      Freedom knowing they are on the right track

*      Support & guidance in the process of achieving their goal

*      Increased motivation, enthusiasm and happiness in their personal life

The entire Why Wait? Create Your Soul Mate Now! System has produced 100’s of success stories of people finding their soul mate. You’ll leave this workshop confident in knowing that finding your soul mate is well within your grasp! I look forward to helping you.

Much Love,

Frank Polancic

This course cleared the way for him to show up!  I am just on a cloud.  I can not believe that he just fell out of the sky and in front of me.   He is exactly what I created him to be; intelligent, funny, charming, handsome, a gentleman, and more specifically, a man who is a powerful business man.

We both have the same feelings for each other. He’s the one! Thank you, for the stand you are for soul mates everywhere.

Barbara

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Your days of being single are numbered!

Diving into Online Dating

Wash yourself of any preconceived notions regarding online dating as a last act of desperation. A great way to meet your match, online dating is a welcome change from being set up on blind dates and trying to meet people in bars or churches; and if you’ve been out of practice, it’s an easy, efficient way to dip your feet back into the dating pool. In fact, it’s become so popular that it’s now a fundamental resource for close to 20% of the singles population. That‘s right…nearly 1 in 5 of your single friends is using online dating services in the U.S., and that number is still growing. Check out the tips below to ensure that you start off this journey on the right foot!

Preparing for the Plunge

1.  Before you dive into internet dating, determine what “success” is for you, and have a clear intention the type of relationship that you’re looking for…otherwise you‘ll be more likely to attract someone who doesn’t harbor the same goals. Are you just looking to have fun and meet some new friends (or perhaps friends with benefits)? Do you want a short term relationship? How about a long-term, committed, non-marital relationship? Or are you looking to find your soul mate, marry them, and live happily ever after? Whatever your choice, define what’s important to you, and stick with it.

2. Identify the traits that you are seeking in a companion. The easiest way to accomplish this? Identify what you don’t want. Then turn it into a positive by asking yourself “If I don‘t want this…what do I want?” So if you don‘t want a companion who is a liar, then by proxy, you want someone who is honest. This is called your Soul Mate Resume. (If you‘d like to learn more about authoring your own Soul Mate Resume visit www.createyoursoulmatenow.com and email me for a free step-by-step chapter on the process.)

3. Choose the right site for you. If you Google online dating, you’ll be overwhelmed with over 1300 options…so how do determine which will work best for you? Google your top 5 passions in conjunction with the phrases “internet dating” or “online dating”. If you‘re into fitness, search for “fitness + online dating”; if you’re spiritual, search for “spiritual + internet dating”; and so on. This will pull up appropriate dating sites that fit your interests.

4. Imagine how you’re going to feel once you’re with the right person. As was witnessed on Oprah, The Secret movie showed us that we get what we think about…it’s the Law of Attraction. So will it be love at first site? A whirlwind romance? Will you be stimulated and energized? Once you’ve latched on to how it’s going to feel, let it fill you and don’t let go.

5. Create a compelling photo by having someone (a friend, a professional photographer…whoever) take a candid photo of you when you’re being natural – at home, at a park, any place where you’ll feel relaxed and inspired. Take multiple photos and then send them off to your 5 closest friends or confidantes and have them choose their favorite two or three options…they’ll be able to view them more objectively than you will, and the good ones will continue rising to the surface.

Taking the Plunge

There’s only one tip needed here: be true to yourself, and accept yourself for who you are. Be honest and authentic on your profile…if you‘re 150 lbs, don‘t say you’re 140 lbs – even if you *think* you‘ll be that weight once you meet someone in person. If you’re 37, don’t say that you’re 32. It is wrong to mislead and deceive your prospective date, and yourself…be confident in who you are. Lies, even little white ones, are not a good foundation of any relationship.

In being true to yourself, keep your profile fun and upbeat by embracing your hobbies and quirks. If you like to smoke a pipe, don‘t hide it…let people know you enjoy it and why. If you‘re a Trekkie, convey your passion. Details like these will differentiate you from others, and your confidence will make you more intriguing.

After the Plunge

While waiting for Mr. or Mrs. Right, continually raise your standards by tweaking your Soul Mate Resume. When you start attracting some of the qualities you want in a relationship (but not the right person), you’ll know you‘re on the right track, and will just need to tweak your focus by revising the resume – creating what you do want, out of what you don‘t want. For example, if you found someone who was funny, attractive and wealthy, but was turned off by the fact that they had been married four times, then reword your resume to state that you are looking for someone who is ready for their first and only marriage – with you!

And don’t just stop there…be sure to look inward and continually update your profile, improving yourself, so you can in turn improve your results. Unless you change what you are putting out into the world, both physically and mentally, you’re going to keep attracting the same kind of person that you already know you’re not interested in. Only you are responsible for your results – not the dating service, not the self-help books – you. If you are clear about what you want, you‘ll get it…it‘s just a matter of time.

About the Author…

Frank Polancic (often referred to as The Soul Mate Guy) is a dating coach, noted speaker and author of “ The Ladies Only Online Dating Teleclass – How to Choose an Online Dating Site That Gets You Your Man!” and “Why Wait? Create Your Soul Mate Now!”, an exceptional dating companion that combines the law of attraction, psychology, feng shui and other spiritual concepts to collectively break down barriers and help singles identify and attract their ideal partner.

His method is a powerful transformational tool to help men and women fall in love and live happily ever after…if you‘re not getting the results you want from online dating then call him at 312-286-4706 to arrange a private or group coaching call. www.createyoursoulmatenow.com

Going on a date with a new potential “someone special” for part of an evening can be challenging and exhausting. What will you talk about? Will you both be uncomfortable? Will there be lapses in conversation? Will they be boring? Will you have anything in common? Will they be what you’re looking for? Will you be what they’re looking for?

One date can be stressful enough, imagine fifteen. When you sign up for speed dating it’s like going on fifteen dates at once. So needless to say, it can be an emotional roller coaster.

How do you limit the small talk, and make your time together productive? How do you get to know the person in front of you? How do you make a memorable and positive first impression?

The bottom line: Have a notion of what you’re looking for and trust your instincts.

Below are guidelines to making your speed dating event as successful as possible. Going beyond “conversation starters”, the following tools will prepare you for your event; help you through it (while helping you make the most of it); and then assist you in decompressing afterward. Being prepared and relaxed will allow you to be confidently yourself, and attract people’s interest…leaving them desiring more.

Before the Event:

1. In all dating – online, offline and speed dating – you must first decide what it is you are looking for. Let’s not make this a complicated laundry list of desired qualities…simply; do you want a short term relationship, a long term relationship, or a soul mate (a person that you intend on spending the rest of your life with)? There is no right or wrong answer – it just depends upon what phase of your life you’re in. Spend 5 minutes now to determine what you want…

2. Have you decided? Now you have some concrete expectations. You’re now freed up to explore your options and allow the rest to fall into place. When you know what you want for yourself, you can’t blame anyone but yourself for your results. Regardless of what you chose, bear this in mind: According to the US Bureau of Statistics, 85% of all Americans will be married at least once in their lifetime. So know that many of the people at the event may be (even unconsciously) looking for marriage…it’s only natural and human.

3. Define what you would call a successful event, so you know what your goal is. What is the intended result? To have a good time? To meet new people? To score a date or two, or even three? What else? (You may not want to shoot as high as saying that you’re going to find your soul mate since it could set you up for disappointment, but if your date ends up being your soul mate then that’s a bonus!

4. Schedule your next speed dating event beforehand. By going in with an “abundance” mindset, you’ll have more fun and be less attached to the outcome. You can always cancel the next event if you’re lucky enough to find a good prospect the first time around. Otherwise, keep going and meeting new people.

5. Block out an evening once a week for the next 4 weeks, for a date night – whether you know who the date is or not. This will keep it on top of your mind and create space for you to schedule it in…so you’ll be ready and aware when the opportunity arises.

During the Event:

Besides the obvious dating tips such as dress well, be confident, make eye contact, and smile…the most important part of speed dating is the conversation. Here are some conversation starters (or perhaps enders) that are sure to make an impact.

1. Guys – Start off with a compliment. Tell her you like her hair or she looks pretty tonight. Ask her about her shoes! A compliment shows that you pay attention to detail.

2. Ladies – Ask where he shops. You can tell a lot about a person based on how they dress and where they shop.

3. “Do you still have a lot of objects lingering around from your past relationships? Like what?” This can be introspective, and often hilarious. People always have stuff lingering from past relationships…it may elicit them to go home afterward and clean out their closet. You may too.

4. “Tell me what you don’t want in a relationship.” Everyone tends to say what they want, rather than what they don’t want…but by asking what they don’t want, you can often instantly tell you if you are right for one another. It’s counterintuitive but it works – if you’re a smoker, and they don’t want a smoker, then you’ve saved yourself a lot of time. (And if you think they’re worth it, maybe you’ll make some changes and stop smoking.)

In addition, here a few quirky, unusual questions to ease tension make you stand out among the competition, and make the event more fun.

1. “What does your closet or bedroom say about you?” In my book “Why Wait? Create Your Soul Mate Now!” I demonstrate how one’s closet/bedroom/home is a direct reflection of not only their romantic life, but their lifestyle in general.

2. “Where would you go on a Honeymoon?” This will get the creative juices flowing, wake people up and cause them to be inspired. It can also give you insight on whether they are interested in marriage.

3. “How many nightstands do you have next to your bed?” This is a good way to tell if they are committed to being in long term relationship that leads to marriage – one nightstand means they are unconsciously still single, while two nightstands means partnership, and that they are most likely interested in a committed, long term relationship.

Other tips for the event:

1. Don’t discuss sex.
2. Get comfortable so you can get results quickly…because you only have 3-8 minutes
3. Listen! Don’t act like you’re listening…actually listen. People can tell if you’re pretending.
4. Even if you’re not interested in them…be interested in them. Why? You are all partners in the event, you are all committed to meeting people, and it was nice that they showed up for you.

After The Event:
1. Leave the event on a positive note, like you’ve made new friends and intend on seeing everyone again.
2. Keep an even keel, and just be glad to have met new people. Don’t set yourself up for a letdown by obsessing over people calling you.
3. Trust your instincts. Only you know if it felt right. If you believe that it did, follow up.

Above all else…make it a game, have fun, and get out there and do it again!

About the author

www.createyoursoulmatenow.com

Frank Polancic is a dating coach, noted speaker and author of “Why Wait? Create Your Soul Mate Now!” a book that helps singles identify and attra

It is the topic that keeps coming up – over dinner with friends, around the office water cooler and especially on holiday visits with family: finding a soul mate.

People love to talk about all sorts of aspects of finding a soul mate: the dos and don’ts, the what-to-wear, the rules about when to call and when to wait. The journey to finding a soul mate is the subject of hundreds of movies, countless books, and even the fairy tales with which we were raised. There is a reason for that: in it’s our nature to love and be loved. We are drawn to love stories because they strike a chord within us.

Most of us have, in our efforts at finding a soul mate, hit more than our share of road blocks. We’ve wondered why the journey can feel so hopeless. And so we look harder – we’ve got our antennae up whether we are strolling along a beach in Cancun or just walking down a supermarket aisle. Have you found yourself doing this: looking everywhere for “the one”?

I’m going to let you in a secret that can change your life, starting today. The secret to finding a soul mate is to stop looking. That’s right: stop looking. Today is your day to make a decision to stop looking for a soul mate and let that person come to you. In my book Why Wait? Create Your Soul Mate Now! I explain that finding a soul mate is not a matter of searching high and low; instead it’s about gaining clarity about what you really want and trusting the universe will provide it.

The Law of Attraction teaches us that what we focus on is what manifests in our lives. As long as your focus is on looking for a soul mate, chances are your energy is directed to the search itself, rather than the discovery. You can instead stop looking and commit to creating the space in your life for your soul mate to show up.

Step one in creating your soul mate is to believe it. Picture yourself finding a soul mate effortlessly… at the moment you least expect it. Spend a few moments each day, every day, in the mindset that your soul mate is in your life. You can even make a collage of photographs and other symbols of what your life together will look like. Meditate on that, really feel it. At first this exercise may seem a little odd, because it’s brand new to you, but soon enough you will be living your life with the mindset and emotions of someone who is truly creating the life of her dreams.

You will be amazed by the changes you experience! You may even find that elements of your life outside of the realm of romance begin to change: you’ll feel better, with a more positive outlook. Be prepared for your friendships to change, as well. Some of the nay-sayers or other negative influences may be put off by the new and different you; chances are they won’t know what has changed but will subconsciously sense your newfound ease. It’s o.k., because the people who are truly on your side will gravitate toward you and support you.

Another change you will likely notice is that your relationship with time will seem different. Once you focus on what it feels like to have all you’ve ever dreamed of, you’ll experience a sense of calm. No more racing against the clock on an endless journey… time is all yours, and yours to share with the soul mate who is about to arrive. You deserve it!

Yes, that means you! What a great time to be creating a partnership: traditional roles have made way for a new era of building a successful marriage. Old ideas about how marriage “should” look have gone by the wayside, allowing space for couples to build the relationship that works best for them. As a powerful woman, this is your time.

Perhaps it seems odd for a man to be writing that powerful women can have it all. For a long time, we guys were in limbo – not sure how to approach women who clearly were in control in the business world, or any arena they chose. What were we guys supposed do with our deep-seated need to be providers? Please, have compassion: it’s “our thing” to want to provide and feel needed. It’s so deeply ingrained in men that some of us need a little coaching to be our best in a relationship with a powerful woman.

I know this from first-hand experience. I’m married to a woman who has a flourishing executive coaching business, a three-year-old child, a great social life and, I’m very happy to say, a wonderful marriage. Thea is an awesome example that powerful women can have it all.

Honestly, when I met my wife one of the aspects of her creativity that really appealed to me was her business acumen. Little did I know, at the time, how great a business woman she truly is. When her success surpassed mine I struggled to come to grips with not being needed to provide in the traditional sense. It threatened my sense of myself, but it did something else, too – it activated my certainty.

You see, my wife saw that I was struggling. In my mind, she was no longer my biggest fan. But she knew better: she gave me the space to become my own biggest fan. And therein is the secret, we can only thrive if we believe in ourselves. No one can fix us or even prop us up for too long. I learned that the person who owns the role of being my biggest fan is me.

I admit, it took me a while to realize the role that the Law of Attraction plays in relationship building. As long as I was focused on what I was not achieving, I was stuck. When I activated my certainty that I am my own man and my wife is her own woman, we were able to move forward in a mutually supportive way. Thea knew all along that powerful women can have it all.

Take a look at the role you play in your relationships. Sometimes men are indeed scared away by not feeling needed. Are you focused on how all the men you meet start by admiring your success but within six months are off to find someone who will prop them up? I suggest that you shift focus. You can do this by beginning with a simple list of what you do not want in a relationship. Once you are crystal clear about what you don’t want you can quickly begin to make a contrast list of what you do want. Focus on that daily and you will begin to notice guys showing up with those positive qualities you’ve been thinking about.

For instance say you don’t want a guy who will leave you after six months because you’re working a lot and bringing in a lot of money. Once you are clear about that you can focus on what you do want – a guy who will be comfortable with your success, and comfortable with himself.

You already know how to make things happen, so you are already living the Law of Attraction. Just transfer those amazing skills to drawing your ideal partner into your life. It make him some time (I admit it took me time), but it will be worth the wait. Don’t stop short of knowing and experiencing the truth: powerful women can have it all.